I don't know, this girl looks like kind of... sad?

Cute face and physically in good shape, studying for a MS degree in literature, i've asked her out first time for a coffee the other morning.

Things went okay, I still have to improve A LOT regarding dating and chicks, but whatever.

Chatted a little about personal stuff – I got the impression that she comes from a very modest family background, she is an only child and as far as I understood lives alone with her mother. I didn't ask but suspect father passed away due to old age, despite her being only 23 years old.

I mean, we got along fine, she didn't show any sign of weakness, sadness, whatsoever, just seems like a mild girl.

Now, I realized don't feel a huge connection with her, but I still care somewhat, don't want to be an asshole and use her for a pump and dump.

I would just feel guilty, taking advantage of a girl that doesn't give those sparkly sunshiny university life vibes like any other young student girl that I used to meet so far.

Did any of you ever face a similar situation? I mean, maybe I'm just overthinking about this and should just go on and forget about it, I'll meet other girls eventually.

Also, well, the really important part that I left out is: she is in a youth organisation that I have just started to hang out with, that's how we met. Should I apply the "don't shit where you eat" principle here too?