Crosspost "Ghosted after incredible first date" from /r/dating:

Just looking for some advice, cant really find it elsewhere. I went on an incredible first date on friday with 23f (me 25M), and confused as to what is going on now, Wednesday. I met her on a dating app and after a few exchanges we agreed to drinks at 730 friday. I meet her and we end up clicking in every facet, conversation flowing, laughing, and we even kissed sitting at the table bc of the already built sexual tension. I decide to invite her out with my friends and I for the night, and we literally cannot keep our hands off each other the entire night. Even my friends were amazed at how well she was hanging, it was pretty much all guys and her. We end up having an amazing night, and I take her home at about 3am. We hang at her apt for awhile and decide not to have s*x bc of our strong feelings for each other and not wanting to rush things too much. Before leaving she even mentioned that it was the best first date shes been on and could not wait to see me again. The standard thank you text the next day and I decided to text her to make plans on monday bc she wanted to go on another date this week. No response. I know shes active on her phone bc we exchanged igs and she posted twice to her story since then. Not really sure what to do now because I dont want to be overbearing but I have never connected with someone like we did. I was super excited to see her again, and I feel like I have to write her again. I cant leave this being ghosted, and just looking for some advice in how to proceed. Any ideas on what I should text her?

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TLDR: Amazing first date, reciprocated mutual feelings for each other, planned for another date and then ghosted.

Posted by West-Chapter-3804 | 26 January 2022 | Link