I'm starting college soon and will move to a new city in a week. I'm talking to a girl who is doing the same. She's going to a different college in the same city, a good prospect of a plate - don't shit where you eat.

We've talked about going out when we both get there and she's on board. But I know desire must be spontaneous and not planned. How can I keep this exciting, fast, and fun, while it's a week away?

  • Ghost her for a week until I've moved in
  • Continue to talk to her but don't reveal too much
  • Talk to her very sparingly