I don't get the men who say that OF women give off a genuine connection

So a common rebuttal to the "porn is free" argument from men who pay for OF subscriptions is that the women on there provide a sense of connection.

But these same women protect their personal information from their subs at all costs and will stop talking to you the minute the money stops rolling in. Most of them also have real life boyfriends or husbands.

Based on that, I don't really get that counter argument. At best, OF women are just strangers who occasionally talk to men for access to their bank accounts.