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So I read this post and I am still in disbelief about what I see . Let's make things clear. The problem is not the man taking care of the woman . But the problem is the "reversal" of the traditional role . Maybe what I am going to say will sounds sexist but despite the fact I know how to cook(because since I cook since 16), I will not do it for a grown woman, unless she is sick, pregnant, on her period or other exceptional situations . But if she is doing well, I will not. Plain and simple . "Mental charge" because of the chores ? Is it an american thing ? I really find it weird . I don't see men coming and say:" We are tired to be provider or the shield of the family. Let's share this role together ." I never see that and I doubt that even if it happens women would accept this deal. So men must be traditional but woman have to be "modern" ?