I need some solid advice and way out

jeezydasnowman · 2016-08-24T03:16:03+00:00

Watch RSD videos. Build yourself mentally - confidence, charisma, and ngaf.
You aren't ready for daygame. Focus on nightgane at least til you pull ... you have never even pulled before...
Do not approach in a classroom environment. Learn night game and use your dancing lessons to pull.
Find hobbies that enable you to meet women easily. Yoga is a good start. Rock climbing, co-ed sports like ultimate/volleyball/water polo, mixology, improv, slam poetry, music production/promotion, or photography.
Confidence, charisma, and ngaf

Kosnagoo · 2016-08-24T06:00:07+00:00

You should eat thin crust pizza with spicy toppings to get jacked and simultaneously boost your metabolism. Do you own research about it before bashing pizza. You're Indian so I would guess that you metabolism is equivalent to that of an 18 year old.
Girls are everywhere and it is your mindset keeping you back from talking to them. Of course it is easier said than done, but the idea is to just start speaking to a girl within 3 seconds of seeing her, otherwise your brain will become congested with excuses not to. When faced with the decision to do or do not, you should always do it because then you have a better story to tell your friends or whoever you care about. You have nothing to lose besides getting rejected. Everyone is different but situational openers are usually the best.
This is such an easy opener that it's better to not open at all and let the girls do it. Men doing yoga is played out and many girls go to actually focus on their fitness and not be hit on for once in their day. You will stick out and most likely will have them talk to you if you smile and are perceived with energy and a positive attitude.
Watch comedy and develop a sense of humor and a IDGAF attitude (I don't give a fuck). Russell Peters is a great Indian comedian. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zoG7JmefQLw).
It depends what is giving you these negative emotions. Ask yourself will you really care about this negative thing in 2 hours. If the answer is no, you should drop it and move on. If the answer is yes, keeping asking yourself why until you can pinpoint the root problem and then find steps to overcome it.

Cheers.

Fnaut3187 · 2016-08-24T10:39:45+00:00

Indian here. I would say start by building self-esteem. The thing about hair is a myth. Be proud of your heritage and ethnicity. Best place to meet girls is through any expats group where people are more open towards foreigners. Apartment from this, it doesn't really matter where you are from given you are charming, attractive and confident.

Also, brother. Improve your English! Don't fake the accent. Just speak clearly so that everyone can understand you. I cannot believe you are looking at those dumb matrimonial websites. You can do better than "arranged marriage".

Title	I need some solid advice and way out
Author	Heuristiclogistica
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Date	August 24, 2016 2:44 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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