Preface this I grew up with Myspace an early facebook so despite having this for years I still dont fully feel comfortable spinning plates using social media. I prefer to keep non personal contact to a minimal.

I hooked up with a hottie who came to visit and we said we should meet up and they seemed very keen however theyve not replied when I said im free Im not paticularly bothered about this paticular occasion (or at all) but it got me thinking because it concides with me wanting to travel and use tinder passport and social media to link up, keep in contact and to maintain connections whilst also using it as a shop window for personal and business reasons, because we have to accept thats the fucking world we live in now. Ive never done a long distance relationship (out of choice) and dont plan too either but my question is for those with experience (looking at you younger guys mainly) what are your tips game and plate spin using social media wasting the least amount of time possible without appearing like a fan but still keeping people in orbit, Im also including business contacts in this (say i met a promoter at a venue i wanted to perform at). My only idea is to just keep it certain hours of the day and certain amount of times per month per person. I know trp consensus is this  is a waste of time - which I'm inclined to agree with -  not only do I feel that there are exceptions to the rule but that this has become the rule for people closer to 20 than 30. is theres been a thread on this please could someone direct this dinosaur to it.