Disturbing feminist attempt to give Lorena Bobbit a redemption arc

Crosspost "Disturbing feminist attempt to give Lorena Bobbit a redemption arc" from /r/MensRights:

For those who don't know, Lorena Bobbitt is a woman who cut off her husband's penis in the 90's while he slept. In court, she claimed she did it because her husband abused and raped her over the years (without any proof). Her husband vehemently denied the allegations (and in fact claimed that Lorena pressured him into sex the night she mutilated him). That night she did it, she told police she did it because "He always have orgasm [sic], and he doesn't wait for me ever to have orgasm. He's selfish." Neither eventually got prison time. However, in recent years, feminists have began to sympathize with Loreana Bobbitt. About 2 years ago, there was a docuseries starring Lorena Bobbitt, where she's painted as a huge victim of her husband (again, without any proof). NY Times wrote a piece defending her as a victim in 2019: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/30/arts/television/lorena-bobbitt-documentary-jordan-peele.html

Now imagine for a moment that a man mutilated his wife's genitals while she slept. And then claimed that he did it because she abused and raped him (and had no evidence of either). No one would listen to him, and he'd go to prison for life. Just another example of "Believe All Women". Even if the man is the victim, he deserved it (according to our feminist society). It's so easy for a woman to be an abuser, and then put the entire blame on the man, and society will always believe her.