There are different types of Red Pillers! In this post, I help you understand them and what might make them the way they are!
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The Nice Guy / Pushover: This is someone who found that being overtly nice to women for such a long time only caused him to feel like women simply don't care about niceguys. He finds content or men who preach about being alpha males and not taking crap from women.. and starts thinking it's the way, and thus thinking that attractive women are innately b.itches to men who are nice. The reality is, being the nice guy probably found him some individuals who were not so likely to keep things steady with him but perhaps be with him for comfort or provider ship, in which he maybe failed to see obvious redflags, being ofc, a bit of a pushover. While not all Nice guy's have it bad, some fail to see their choice of partners flaws and thus develop resentment over things just not working out and start believing its their personality or generalizing women negatively.
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The "Alpha Male" guy: This dude doesn't understand why his douchey flair and machismo attitude makes him the perfect choice for women who just want a rebound to get over someone, or just a one night stand. He starts developing resentment toward women either because some chick "did him dirty" or because he feels like women don't care about him or respect him (because hes Soooo worthy of respect). In reality, women see him as a potential player, or a type that is just not great for long term meaningful relationships because of cues he gives off in his personality, attitude, social media pages, etc
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The Narcissist / Egoist: This guy thinks that everyone should be bowing at his feet and treat him like royalty. He has an overinflated sense of self.. Usually thinks hes God's gift to women and over amplifies characteristics about himself (thinks of himself as a 10, when hes average, for example). Usually spoiled by either having super nice parents and friends growing up, or having narcissistic parents and not truly understanding emotions and love, he thinks hes knows everything about dating but often finds himself in "toxic relationships" where he plays the victim, blames the ex for everything and claims she was toxic. The narcissist is often jealous, gets angry when things dont go his way, and has trouble understanding if a girl really likes him or not so he often treats her like crap when she doesnt do things that fit his narrative.
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The Insecure or Inexperienced man (Incels can fit in here too)
The insecure or inexperienced man, while they differ, have similarities. Some would say that The Insecure man should not be dating in th first place, as they have obvious insecurities that they sometimes hide and safeguard to cope with whats going on in the world around them. Some of these men do not have much experience talking to women or even having women as friends, but they spend time on the internet acting like they are experienced to help cope with the lack of a sex life or to make up for the fact that they are truly not that social. Now the insecure man might also have issues that they may be embarassed to talk abouti that might affect their dating life, such as premature ejaculation, being a bad conversationalist, other sexual issues, lack of confidence in themselves, etc.
The problem with some of these insecurities is, when they go into dating without being fully confident in themselves and centered is, they often find themselves hurt by things that are out of thew omans control.. But since things dont go their way, they might associate that hurt with women and thus start forming resentfulness or anger towards women. Really, they just need a reality check and neeed to start working on themselves and stay away from dating for a while.
- Incels (Seperated to differentiate some characteristics)
Incels are basically just men who are upset at women because they blame women for them not getting laid. Incels simply don't seem to understand that , (andI use this as a rough example, but not a generalization), being a scrawny dude or obese with little social skills who spends most of the time on the computer or video games , and may lack sense of style or interests outside of things that some women don't care about-- has nothing to do with women who just like men, have preferences, and all to do with themselves. Some of them seem to fail to understand what qualities are likeable in a partner, and others simply accept that how they are is who they are, rather than having the determination to mold themselves. Basically accepting being incels as their fate but rationalizing it as women being a certain way, thus falling into Redpill theories.
While these are 4 Character Types of Red Pill men, it is important to note, that these type of guys do exist also as Blue Pill men. However, these types are mentioned as some of the population of them are the most likely to cross over into the Red Pill idealogies due to the things mentioned above.
