Pretty sure I am being brigaded now by a feminist subreddit and it really stinks. If you look at my post history and the comments I am addressing the stuff as well as possible and not invalidating their causes or needs. But they simply can't even think about having empathy for men when I am specifically showing them the disparity.

Before I go further if people go to the thread PLEASE BE NICE EVEN IF THEY AREN'T TO YOU. Getting in arguments or slap fights won't help and does us a disservice.

That being said....It's really getting to me. I state multiple times that I support their needs and the women's only center and that I just wish men had more options but apparently that isn't okay. I even apologized because it took over the comments and that wasn't my intent. I just saw it and got irritated because no one cares about us it feels like and this shit just reinforces that belief to me. I hate it. I don't want to fight with people I never have and I am trying to be as nice as possible but it just doesn't work. I want women to feel safe and have their needs addressed. I explicitly state this over and over. Yet I feel it's ignored.

I just don't feel like they care about ours in turn.