That's a pretty heavy question i presume but long story short:

I was having a discussion about child support with a lady and it elevated to the point were i asked her what she thinks about cases were men get tricked by women into having kids sometimes for the money of child support and sometimes out of spite by piercing the condom or straight up drugging the dude and graping him.

Pretty crazy political discussion but the point is: she told me that they need a proof in court. Ok. I said to her that the court is mostly of the times not in favor of men in that regard and there is even a lot of men that get years in prison for false allegations with no proof whatsoever, that's even a real fear a lot of men have these days that drive them further away from a relationship. In the end i told her that women also need proof but i got called a mysognistic and a grapist for that, like what? She even called me Karen too, like wtf, why did she call me those stuff all of the sudden? How she got to that conclusion?

If she says "Men need proof" she still a saint but if i say precisely the same thing: "Women need proof" i am not just a mysognistic prick but also a straight up grapist now, like wtf, i don't understand, why that double standards?

Mind you that i'm not a redpill or anything of the sort, i'm not part of any cult, i have my own opinions and i speak only on behave of my own stupid ass.