I agree with TRP that lifting is best way to improve confidence, outlook and SMV. I have been lifting for quite a while now but not ripped yet. Is my SMV always going to be low because of general impression of Indians we have here in US? I don't have american accent, I am bald and shave my head and I never had relationship or girlfriend. I get the point that lifting is for self improvement and women are just byproduct. I tried matrimonial sites but half of them are dumb or any decently looking girl is does not like bald men. I like white women and would love to fuck a few but none of them has been attracted to me sexually so far. Indian girls don't even bother to look. Is there any point in trying then? I am losing my patience and might just give up for getting results even at 31.