THese people are trapped in PRESENTISM, they reflect the ironies and contradiction of the modern dating world; praising authentic of falling in love while succumbing love to cold-calculative logic of alghorithmic matchamaking of TInder that filters out race/height/age/wealth/status/a creepy old geezer that should be off the dating market years ago.

the people who told the guy to 'don't rush it' because bvecause things will spontaneusly happen, will use shaming tactics to narrow the dating field even more. "What you met a 21year old?" "Couldn't you find someone your own age loser? " "Sorry that you're stunted but this gives you no right to go after 20 year old children."

THese people are trapped in PRESENTISM, they reflect the ironies and contradiction of the modern dating world; praising authenticity of falling in love while succumbing love to cold-calculative logic of alghorithmic matchamaking of TInder that filters out race/height/age/wealth/status/