Whether in high school or university or at work, I seem to only befriend people I literaly talk with on the first day. It's like some job recrutation that becomes closed after a week. I know main focus of this sub is seducing women, but while I racked some notches, I was kinda friendless for most of my adult life. (My friends seemed to drop out of uni or change cities for some random reasons). Is it viable to enter any already created group or I am basically doomed if I wasn't very social for the first 1-2 times when I met new people?