Was this a shit test? She was all, "You're like a dog. You're aggressive, you bite, and you're really needy."

I agreed and amplified by saying, "I might be the dog, but you'll be the one wearing the collar and leash tonight."

Was this a shit test? It stuck with me. I was physically very forceful and all over her with touching and fingering etc. Does expressing my sexuality mean I'm needy now?

Also what do I do when a girl isn't very playful? She was biting my lip and I told her "I'm going to fuck you tonight" and the only thing she said was "I could tell" in a snarky voice.

I got to fuck, but I didn't like how it got to that point. Any recommendations? Can aggressive expression of sexuality come off as needy?