New to Asktrp What's up with this whole Alpha Male thing?

TrenGod37 · 2017-08-14T05:03:01+00:00

You got the wrong idea of what the red pill is about.

Not one person on here that truly understands TRP will tell you to be a dick to women. Esp ones who reject you. Nor do we say ONLY to have sex with women. Unless sex is the only thing you want from women.

As far as the nice guy thing. How has that been working for you? I'm assuming not very well being that you're here. We don't say be a dick. We don't say be a nice guy. We are teaching you how to become a better man. A good guy well say.

Instead of listening to what other people say about it. Or just going by what you think. Read the side bar and judge for yourself.

vandaalen · 2017-08-14T07:40:50+00:00

Fuck off to purplepilldebate or read the fucking sidebar.

Docbear64 · 2017-08-14T05:13:00+00:00

There's a difference between being nice and being kind. People " Play Nice" when they want to appeal to others, it's a manipulation technique and a method people use when they want to be perceived as valuable / worthwhile to others. It's why so many people enjoy the idea of being a " Nice Guy " It says a lot more about what people think of you then it says about you and what you represent / stand for as an individual .

Kindness is behaving in a way that can be beneficial , positive , even enjoyable to others but you do it not for validation but because that's what you want to do . Have you ever hung out with somebody who everybody loves to be around? the guy who makes an effort to talk to and engage everyone and who generally brings good energy to the people whose company he keeps ? Do you feel like that guy does that just because he wants you to like him or he's legitimately like that ? Like he actually enjoys the ability to engage and keep the good times rolling with the group ?

That's the difference .

The issue with beta nice guys is that they thrive on approval and validation , they aren't good people they are actors pretending to be good people and many of them let their true colors show when life doesn't go their way . I say all this from personal perspective I spent the vast majority of my teens and early 20's being a nice guy and IT took reading a book recommended here for me to be uncomfortably honest with the reasons why . I told myself I did it because I was a good person and that's wha good people do but that was a lie , I did it because I needed people to like me and I'd spend whatever time , money , energy I could getting people to tell me that I was good and mattered.

NbaLiveMobile10 · 2017-08-14T05:06:56+00:00

Ok that is my fault I am new to this and have read some bad stuff some people have wrote but I will def read more into asktrp and get a better consensus of the people on here thank you

NbaLiveMobile10 · 2017-08-14T05:49:54+00:00

Thanks for your input I'll read the sidebar now I think that would be best

Title	New to Asktrp What's up with this whole Alpha Male thing?
Author	NbaLiveMobile10
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	August 14, 2017 4:51 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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