Seriously, i lost a lot of opportunities with women who approached me because i was clueless and introvert so would ended up only ignoring her and sometimes be mean just because i wanted to be left alone, if i was nice i would actually have a lot more experiences with women. All this pua content saying to ignore women advances and messages make me cringe hard because i lost action BECAUSE of this attitude. The examples some men point out is of women who are somehow obsessed with a PARTICULAR guy and end up accepting any bad treatment because is blindly "in love", but if you, average joe, random guy, do the same she will just dislike you. Also being nice is not exactly acting desperate and needy, no one like this attitude and you are not being nice with the person, you are making her feel suffocated and being stalked. And yes there is women who will have her particular simps but, no matter what she will always see this men as simps, if they start to act bad boy she will just get rid of them and take another simp.