so if ur a guy tell us what ur looking for and if ur a girl observe and ask questions. and keep in mind guys that ur talking about what u find most attractive for serious dating not just sex and try to stck to personality and not looks.

ill go first. im mostly attracted to really feminine women but i also like when they are somewhat androgynous, but if theyre androgynous they have to meet this minimum threshold of feminity. i really genuinely like do not care what they do for a living so long as they make a reasonable income. i find women who are naive and child-like etc attractive. this life has left me bitter and cold and i want someone who is the opposite. ime society does not care how u feel when ur a guy so the most attractive thing to me is someone who makes me forget how much i dont like the world. i want to get lost in someone's delusional positivity and forget how much i dont like all this.