Ladies of RPW, how would you honestly rate your SMV and RMV, and at what age did you get engaged if at all?

I've had the impression for some time now that RMV is more of a threshold, with a minimum determining whether commitment will happen but higher RMV does not necessarily influence greater levels or rapidity of commitment. Whereas SMV influences how quickly and effectively one can achieve commitment with a great man.

Gosh I hope I'm explaining this to the best of my ability. Basically, you only need "good enough" RMV, but higher SMV always has increasing influence on LTR success. Thoughts? How did it work for y'all?