I know that this sub doesn't specialize in bisexual male issues, but I don't feel that the bi community understands how to help bi men getting redpilled.

I am currently out of the closet, and I identify as bi. I recently came across these two short tiktok videos. This one of SHNEAKO on Fresh&Fit. And this video from SHNEAKO's twitch. Both videos show bi women's double standards for bi men.

These videos give me ptsd because I dated a bi girl who stopped dating me after I told her I was bi. She was pretty mean about it. Saying I dressed gay, that I was gay, and in denial, and that I should sell my body to old gay men. I don't know why she said that. It hurts more because I thought she would be accepting of me being bi because she was bi too.

I don't know how to trust bi women anymore ever since seeing those SHNEAKO videos. Bi men are stereotyped as all having aids/monkeypox, being gay, and in denial, or not being "man" enough. The fact that even some bi women believe those stereotypes hurts.

I see bi women dating everyone (straight men, bi women, bi men, and lesbians), while I hear bi men living lives in romantic isolation, including mine. It makes me feel like bi women are dating on "easy mode" in the dating market due to society preferring bi women more than bi men. Making me feel more bitter.

I've been trying to seek a therapist specializing in lgbtqa issues because I hate the way I am thinking. It's toxic, and not fair to bi women. I do not want dating advice. I just want to learn to trust bi women again, and ways for me to avoid getting redpilled.

And NO I am not going to "full gay" as a solution because I'm bi, not gay. I still am attracted to women. I KNOW what sexuality I have.