I already posted this but on my feed it doesn’t pop up so I’m sorry if it seems repetitive but my mother is a narc and has abused me in almost every way as a child besides sexually but even borderline that. Anyway, she’s trying to sabotage me and my bf and I will not allow it and if she persists I will indeed cut her off but she’s never really been with anybody and misery loves company so she wants me to be single so I can put all my attention on her. She’s emotionally incestual in the fact that when I’m with someone she always complains about me not texting back fast enough and stuff and nagging and just showing signs of jealousy. Anyway, idk if I have a question I guess it’s more so a rant but any tips on how to deprogram ? She always tries to feed me negativity about my bf and I will NOT allow it any longer if she says one more thing she will get blocked but yeah why do single mothers do this ?