Are we goods? How much is your sexual value today?

Let's imagine that you have today $ 40,000, and you want to buy a car. We have two cars that cost exactly R $ 40,000 each. The first one has few resources, is not fashionable and does not please your personal taste very much. The second, on the contrary, has state-of-the-art features, pleases your personal taste and is often seen on the street. Which of the two will you invest your $ 40,000?

It is obvious that you will choose the second.

Now let's imagine that the first car (the bland model) is manufactured by a company concerned about the environment. In addition, this company maintains some NGO's that attends children in need, respects labor rights (employees only speak well of the company where they work) and the owner is an honest and very good person.

As for the second car (the super-cool model), the owner does not care about the environment, obliterates taxes, labor obligations, and the worst: he uses the company only as a front for illegal activities.

I ask again: which of the two models would you choose?

Look, I am able to swear that you would CONTINUE TO CHOOSE THE SUPER-DESCOLATED MODEL! I doubt you would change your mind about the second car, even knowing the bad character of the owner of the car. No, not only you: everyone would continue to buy the fucking car, even knowing that it could indirectly be financing illegal activities! Damn what's moral and ethical in this case, because what matters is to be "cool"!

This reality described above also applies to the sexual field. People (men and women) tend to value more "packaging" than "content". Men seek beautiful women, with full breasts, ass defined, minimal belly, angelic face, straight hair and thick thighs. Women seek tall, strong men with a face that conveys aggressiveness and dominant personality; or even financially successful leaders, who have a car and an ambitious personality.

Rather than being fooled about the nature of the opposite sex, learn to get right to the point!

Notice that at no time did I quote "character" in this story. Both men and women look for features connected to EXTERIOR. No one cares how much you are "cool", "companion," "caring," faithful, etc. People want to know is if you have a "package" with high quote in the sexual market. As for their tastes, affinities and pretensions, this is for analysis in a second moment (in fact, that even comes to be analyzed).

You, reader, are unique. No one is equal to anyone, this is fact. But that does not make you special! Nobody cares that you have lunch with two forks; or of having the habit of sleeping with the bedroom window open; or by the fact of enjoying the books of Machado de Assis. Or any other bizarre custom you have! Damn your peculiarities, it does not make any difference in the field of love!

The text seems to have a tone of outburst, or protest against the reality of the sexual market. But the intention, here, is precisely to open your eyes, so that you adapt to this reality, THAT WILL NOT CHANGE EVER! Women will alwaxs want powerful men; men will always want hot women!

Women have a terrible habit of whining at everyone, saying they are treated like objects. In fact, whoever treats others as objects is them! To them, you're just a walking muscle, or a walking wallet, or a walking car (old-fashioned Herbie - the fusca), or a sensational walking personality! For them, behind the muscles, money, car or personality, there is no one, no human being, with feelings, emotions and pretensions!

So they have no right to complain when we see them as objects as well. If you see women as walking asses, walking breasts, faces, etc., as a mere sexual object, do not blame yourself for that: you are normal!

So instead of sticking your head around to find out how to get into that college mackerel, or that tchutchuca at work, try to increase your value in the sex market. It's never too easy to repeat: go and take a financially rewarding course! Go work out! Dig deeper into real blogs and develop detachment! And give up the old romantic vision you always had about them!