I sometimes don't understand how it works. Sometimes people have called me cold. sometimes jolly. Imagine a serious guy with a pokerface who talks with a deep slow voice, is reserved in his opinions. - Is this beneficial? Imagine a jolly guy who flirts with everyone and speaks his mind and flirts with girls.- Is this Game?

I sometimes don't understand how people say learn game etc. what is game? I have observed being the second one lets you talk and socalize with everyone and can easily show a idgaf attitude. But Ive also observed people respecting me and my time more when I looked like a butt hurt serious guy chasing a dream.

This can come back to a difference between Amused Mastery and Frame control.

Should I be like marlon brando in apocalypse now? or sean connery in james bond? One is good at holding frame. Other is good at amused mastery while both propogates idgaf