I think I have good looks. Not panty dropping, just good enough to get some chances here and there. Never consistent but when it happens it comes in bursts of abundance and then bursts of droughts.

But the main thing is I don't have THE look. There is a difference.

Check it out.

This guy I work with is pretty fat. Not obese just chunky. Probably in the 25-30 BMI region and closer to 30.

But he has this look like he copied The Wknd singer artist and it really works for him. Even though hes fat and no special face, he pretty much looks like a superstar or something close.

He showed me his phone and hes got 5 girls texting him plus a new friends with benefits.

So my hypothesis is have THE look is just as, if not more, important than having good looks.

I don't know who I want to copy yet. I'm in my mid thirties now so maybe I'll go for a more classical look. I don't really follow popular culture though so don't even know where to start.

Anyway just wondering how you think my hypothesis stands and if testing this out is likely to show results.

PS: To be fair to my co worker he does have a really good vibe and is an all around jolly dude.