_Here when things get really complicated for a lot of people who ask why the dating words changed when society stoped getting involved.this change was a boost for women who couldn't chase the type of men they wanted without offering sex and dealing with their lack of emotion . SO let's start with women

_Women: the way women view relationships changed when society helped them providing for themselves, so they choosed to chase the type of men they wanted but that made them feel inferior and not as important as they felt when they were the price, when you chase you give value to the price, a lot of men are okay with this but not women, so they see any kind of relationship with the rest of men as a way to regains this value , Women will never chase average men even if they stay single . If you don't make her feel important she will never be in a relationship with you which is pretty toxic but no one hold women accountable especially average men

_ Moving to The top 20% of men: a group of men with amazing potential but a lot of trauma which turn them into an emotionally unavailable people that only get involved with women because of their sexual needs ,they were the first type of men that give "I don't need women" kind of vibes,which got demonized by society and women and turned into " men only want women for their body" instead. Relationship is a way to feel those men's emotional void

_ Now the rest of men (the 80%): the only type of men that still believes in fairy tails ,the only ones that wants relationships for love which made them thirsty, worshiping the ground women walks on and trying to copy the top 20% of men ,then complaining about how women in stories are different from women in their lives , you even hate the top 20% of men cause you think they treat women badly but do not hate women cause they treat you worse.

_People see relationships differently , the average men don't