I'm 23, I found the red pill around 17. I'm just starting a career with no HS diploma or college degree, so I'm not interested in hearing anyone's excuses as to why they aren't doing what they need to be doing. I had multiple chronic illnesses and addictions that I had to overcome. Did not have support from friends or family.

I was doing good with women at that age but what I learned RP, it violently flipped my world upside, I was angry and confused for a long time, in denial as well. It caused intense cognitive dissonance. I got out of it. One thing I realized is that, not everyone is going to win, everyone can't win. Life is not designed to be that way, or to be fair even. It really is like the animal kingdom in ways, the males fights to mate, some do, some don't. It's not a bad thing, it's just how life is. Luckily RP and other things can help men understand how to move through life in better ways but, stop fuckin crying and bitching. I would love if capitalism didn't destroy the environment and the world, I would love if racism and other things didn't exist but they do, and none of it is going away anytime soon. Some people want to be racist, some people want to hate you, some people want to see you FAIL. ( redpill doesn't talk enough about human nature in general, crabs in the bucket mentality and all the ways other men&women will try to fuck your life up.) Does that mean we give up and stop working towards a better future? No, we keep going, but we keep going knowing what we're dealing with and that some people, may never understand or "get it" for millions of reasons.

Some men will refuse reality/redpoll, some men will embrace it. Some men will embrace red pill and actually become a better man, some will become even cornier and women haters. There are so many paths in life. To the young teens, for 1 minute, stop thinking about pussy lmao. There is an entire planet with an abundance of opportunity for you if you choose to take it, it all starts with a choice. I grew up in poverty and now I am just beginning a career. If you're young and worried about girls but your not working or making decent money for yourself, you're priorities are fucked up and your life will be fucked up. If you don't like yourself, why the FUCK, would a girl like you? We were brainwashed by TV, Disney, etc that life is certain way, but it isn't like that. Get to the money, focus on yourself, take the best care of yourself. Do not use the gym as a coping mechanism and make it your entire personality. Explore yourself and the world. Do certain things even when you don't want to. Yeah my parents didn't love me the right way either but I learned how to deal with it and heal so when I have kids I don't fuck them up how my parents did. You're fucked up right now because your parents didn't understand life too well so how could you? It's always an learning process. Busy with life right now but at some point, I'd like to write a small, short and effective guideline for people on here. I see too many boys talking about being alpha which makes me cringe because you're still not taking your life seriously in the ways you need to. There's balance in everything,, and it doesn't have to be perfect balance either. The core of RP needs to be updated in my opinion.