Discovered TRP about 6 months ago. Read a lot of PUA material prior and had developed cocky and funny, DGAF, arsehole persona. Have made it work to a degree but am still shocking with escalation / getting any.

I had a fucktonne of physical health problems through teen years and slowly realising how much of a low sense of self-worth i developed because of it... probably wrote myself out of a lot of opportunities because of this... and it probably feeds into fear of escalation / rejection.

Still working on this.

Increasingly though having lots more women (work/acquaintances) around asking more personal questions:

Who are you seeing at the moment?

How’s tinder going for you? (Acquaintance saw my profile... hadn’t told her about it)

What’s your goss?

Who was that girl you were with the other night? etc.

Have responded with lines like “wouldn’t you love to know” etc with some success but mostly get continually pressed.

Also developed a very private persona from the health shit (whilst still managing to be very social) and I think this may play a part in people asking these questions as i don’t generally talk about personal shit or myself that much.

I feel i can recognise the real answer here is once I actually start spinning I can either be proud/tell them about it (would rather be private).

In the meantime would appreciate any ideas on how to ignore or nuke these questions without coming off defensive or stunned. Maintaining mystery.

Also could these questions be considered IOI or is it just chicks needing to know gossip?