To be fair the previous “two dates” were only 1 hour long, the third one is an actual one.

The date was fun as fuck for me and her, we went urban exploring and did all sorts of shit, and of course she was also very attracted to me.

I bring her back home at the end of the night and I tried to escalate, it was getting pretty sexual, I was grabbing her tits then when I tried to proceed further she stops me.

Me: what’s wrong

She: we are not doing this

Me: why not (with a shit eating grin)

She: fuck no I don’t know you enough (while smiling)

Me: alright we do whatever you are comfortable with

We kept making out in my bed, I try to escalate again and she stops me again, she also said “you boys” in a funny manner, which leads me to think it’s not her first time someone is trying to push over her LMR (no shit)

The thing is this, I know that she likes me a lot, and will have sex with me in the foreseeable future, but I hate waiting for sex, and it’s already been three dates, I don’t want to take her to another and do the same shit again, I have already lost a lot of interest. It’s just not fun for me.

She’s seems like a pretty cool ass chick to hang out with, I could see us becoming more than just casually dating, but I can’t be serous with her or invest any emotions before sex happens.

I don’t know if she’s ever done ons before since we are still pretty young, I don’t care if she had or not. I just don’t like it when she’s the type of girl that does ons but waits multiple dates to have sex with me. We all know what this means.

So it’s pretty frustrating, what would you do in this situation.