I know this is long, and probably a lot of rambling. I’m just trying to make it as detailed as possible and I’m typing it on my phone too.

I really love my wife, and just want to know what I should do. Let her go or fight for her, we did say for better or for worse correct.

“Affair”:

There was this huge snowstorm and busses were cancelled. She lived around my area so I drove her home. This is where things started getting messy on my end. we hung out for a bit at her place, nothing happened. We then started hanging out after work occasionally. Maybe once every 2 weeks or so. My Fianceé would tell me she made a dating profile and talk about all these guys in her DMs and wanting to take her out and what not. I may have gotten jealous, so one night I was hanging with my coworker (she knew I was engaged and open to date). We started drinking and rolled up some spliffs. One thing led to another and I was tonguing her pussy and she was sucking my dick, and that’s all the happened she want to ride me really bad. I couldn’t do that since I haven’t had sex in years and didn’t want the first time to be with a random. Anyways I wasn’t completely honest with my fiancé about things, I said I had no feelings for her and she was just a friend (which was true no feelings for her, she was cute and I enjoyed hanging out with her). My fiancé has always been honest with me, well I believe she has. Cause she’d always tell me everything. Hiding the little fling I had with my coworker, and giving them each others numbers was probably the worst mistake I’ve ever made in my life. Anyways the day before I was going to tell my fiancé, I told her that I don’t want to see my coworker anymore. That she was cool and I enjoyed spending time with her, it’s just not right for me to be doing this. Within a few hours she messaged my fiancé, talking about what we did. She fabricated shit that didn’t happen, and sent some out of context screenshots of texts of her and I. Making things look worse than what they were. I got her candles one time, cause we’d smoke in her place and she’d light scented candles so it won’t stink up the whole condo floor. She was out of them one time, so I spent $20 Bucks on candles for her. She’d always smoke me up, and offer me some beer, rum or cognac. It was like bringing over snacks to your buddies place as pitch for smoking (they buy the weed and I buy the drinks and munchies). Anyways my fiancé has an episode comes to my work and starts yelling and screaming at me in the parking lot Where people can see. She starts grabbing and pulling my hair and ears, and slapping and punching me. She’s furious on what I did behind her back, but we were in an open relationship so idk what the big problem was. Anyways she says she doesn’t want to be in an open relationship anymore. To this day she still brings up my “cheating ass” and tells My why don’t I call my lil ugly hoe up and do X with her and says some other shit. Few weeks maybe a month later I loose my job cause of the mandatory vaccine BS the prime minister puts in place. The pandemic has ruined so many ppls relationships and jobs it’s crazy

If you read all 3 pts thanks!