I use to be more red pill. I had trouble dating since I am autistic. However, at the age of 36, I was asked out by a 21 year old girl, and we had a really good time and I felt a much better connection with her than other women I dated in the past.

It turns out she was autistic too, which is probably why the connection worked quite well. However, I feel this goes against the red pill narrative because I feel like I didn't even have to do much money or career wise, or even exercise or gym wise, to attract her, and she doesn't 'shit-test' me near as much as I would have thought.

So this got me thinking maybe I am more purple pill than red pill now as a result, but maybe she is an exception to the rule and most women are not like this for most guys?