Where to begin? And how?

Swallowing_the_Rpill · 2017-10-07T17:40:58+00:00

So I could just send you to the sidebar, which is the correct answer, but Imma bother giving you some detail cuz I can relate.

First, idgaf about your social life. Join a Gym. Follow a routine from /r/Fitness. Eat everyday at 300-500 calorie surplus. Can't eat that much? GOMAD.

Second, your social life. Focus on stop being a social retard first, women will come later. You're in University? Good, join each and every single club/society/frat you have the slightest interest into. Did you play chess once when you were 7? Good join the fucking chess club. You are not there to get good, you are there to practice what is like to have a social life and interacting with other human beings. Focus on male friendships first, women don't make great friends in general. Go to all the parties or meeting those clubs have and anything the uni organizes. Will it be awkward? Yes. Being a 25, 30, or 40yo kissless virgin with no friends is even more awkward.

What to talk about? The context. In class? "Hi this class is so ..., right?" Then you introduce yourself. In library, cafeteria..."Hi are you in my class? No? oh i made a mistake. What do you study?" It will be awkward at first, just smile, look at people in the eyes when you speak to them, and try to be nice. Do that on everyone you can in every situation you can. If you aren't able to make any friends after trying that on everyone, you need professional help or you are not trying hard enough (probably the second one).

Finally:

I'm still a kissless virgin loser.

No one cares about that except you, don't tell anyone, and if you are so embarrassed it cripples you, go fuck a prostitute or a landwhale on Tinder.

Moved last week into a new town

Great opportunity to begin a new life from scratch

My father left before I was born - My mother didn't pay much attention to me for various reasons

No one cares, nor are those valid excuses. It's not your fault what your parents did, but it is your responsibility what you do with your life.

Sometimes I try it but then I come off as awkward and feel crushed and withdraw myself.

Good, but not enough. Try and try and try and try and try. And when you are finished, try again. Realise that there are 2 choices: you either try, or take a step towards the future you are trying to avoid. There is no such thing as not playing or staying in the same place, you either move forward or move backwards. Choose, and choose wisely.

Dedicate one hour before bed everyday to do 2 things: 1. Meditate. 2. Read. What to read?? The fucking sidebar.

Good luck.

MrAgamemnon · 2017-10-08T08:38:49+00:00

I am not talkative because I can't think of something interesting to talk about.

You can't think of anything because you don't have a fucking life.

You need to have hobbies and interests; I am not talking about TV. Go to college (STEM), join groups, join social sports teams.

Join a fucking gym.

Kommanderdude · 2017-10-08T14:13:09+00:00

Behold! The side bar-> It’s text are ancient and sacred. For it contains the knowledge of the first Alpha males and has been passed down through the centuries. It’s words are true and just. Thou must read and internalize all of its teachings and thou shall be enlightened. Be ye warned! For not every beta male’s mind is ready or capable of understanding its knowledge. Those who cannot decipher the meaning of its text will go insane with madness and throw an SJW hissy fit while those who are enlightened find success with both business and women.

Title	Where to begin? And how?
Author	awaythrowtrp
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	October 7, 2017 3:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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