Earlier someone posted an article from AV4M in regards to the "women lurking on the fringes". The article used a key phrase in there I had never heard before - Zeta Male. After reading this article, I felt as if someone had written the first page to my personal biography for me. Take a look and see if this describes you.

shoutout to reddit.com/u/blueoak9 for posting the article I mentioned that lead me to this