Recently, I started practicing basketball at my university team. Just to get a workout. I live in Europa, and every year some american exchange student (mostly girls) start a semester here. Ive hooked up with one before, who I actually liked and almost another but I failed.
An american girl recently began to train with team. She is pretty cute and in general fit.
And she slobs all over the two most alpha guys on the team; the two tallest and most fit guys on the team. They are not necessarily the best, but they are among the best. By slob I mean giving massive ioi like talking excessively to them, cheering them on, touching them, complimenting them, giving them lots of attention etc.
I, in an attempt to test TRP, subsequently ignored her from the beginning, and simply integrated with the team. I get along and can talk with everyone, but I consioucly decided not to try to engage her. Not notice her beauty. There other reasons for this as well, I do daygame and I was a bit mentally tired from rejections, so I felt basketball had to be more for me, than to get punani.
I could after a while tell that is was visibly annoying her. One of the alpha guys (he is pretty huge in size and fit), is nice, but does not give her that much attention, the other gives her alot.
I started noticing her attempting to get in my eyesight, checking if I was looking at her, and also attempting to catch my attention in general.
I have always sort of intuitively from a young age, played the ignore game by default and it has sometimes worked.
But it was amazing, because I am in no way "the alpha" on the team. I am not tallest, I am not among the fastest, best or even fit (slightly overweight) and with a horrible cardio due to massive smoking.
I chuckle when I see many of the male teammates give her lots of attention, or give her it whenever she wants. I did eventually give her some attention, a little bit.
Now, I am thinking, is this something about american women ? Because I find american women to be more extroverted(especially this one), than the Northern european women in general I am used to.
I sometimes feel that NE women are so introverted in general, that women do not notice you as much if you play the ignore game. I am off on this or what ?
I chuckle even harder when I see her facebook page later on, shes "in a relationship". Then wtf is she seeking all that attention for ? Talk about sending the wrong signals. NE women in general do not do that in a committed relationship.
I have to say, small things like this keep validating the TRP mindset. If I had a beta mindset, I would have likely engaged her early on and be very happy if her response was positive. I would started dreaming up all sorts scenarios of fucking her left and right etc.
Instead I retain a Clint Eastwood demeanor, my diginity and focus on actually working out.
Edit: It became a bit of a rant, I will take it down if moderators ask me to.
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