So I'll start you all from the beginning and try to give you everything there is to know so that you can use every detail to make a decision on what you think about this.

I met this girl about 6 weeks ago. I was introduced through a small social circle of two friends who are both guys (one is in a serious relationship for 3 years and the other is 5 years older than this girl so neither of them have interest in making a move on her). Our interaction's were light for 4 weeks, we all met up twice a week mid-day to get lunch. We did have deep conversations though. This girl would also tell us a lot about her life and her beliefs about things that usually people don't open up to acquaintances with.

This girl is attractive and based on my interactions I believe she is attracted to me (touches on my arm, leg, me resting my leg on hers, her resting her leg on mine, laughing at a lot of things I say, very open body language).

So 2 weeks ago she is at the gym when I am (she knew I was going to be there at this time because she asked me that day what time I go and she happened to be there at that tim, I don't think it was a coincidence). We have a good conversation and we both leave, this was the first time I was alone with this girl. So I was on campus that Sunday (2 days after the gym interaction) and figured that I would hit her up to see if she wanted to meet up. She responds asking if I'm on campus, I say yea and then she says she's busy and she'll see me at lunch the next day. so then for the past week and a half I have not seen her because either I'm busy so I can't go to lunch or she is busy. I haven't been texting her at all because I don't want to seem needy, however I'd rather try and be rejected than just let this be and never see her again.

So what do you guys think the next move is? I haven't seen her since the occasion at the gym and it has been a week and a half since I asked her to meet up just us 2 so that seed has been planted in her head. How do I approach this so I don't come off too needy, but also so that I can possibly meet up and get my answer as to whether she's going to reject my ass or not? This is a girl who has a lot of "guy friends". I have never been successful in gaming these high SMV girls, not because of how i look(I usually get the first date) but because of the difficulty the game gets to be when you are with a girl as such.

Side Note: Take into consideration I go to the gym 6 times a week and I have been actively gaming other girls so I do not become to emotionally attached out of proportion for this girl (something I struggle with but have been working on).