Hi. I have two scenarios

  1. Met this cute girl on the bus last week. Got her number. Met her this week. Push and pull. Neg. Bit reserved but more kino. I payed for first drinks. Went to another bar. I said you're turn. She just sat there. She's from Eastern Europe and said no British guy has ever done this. I said I am not like any other guy with a smile. She was in the process of payment and I had an abudant mentality so I went to talk to the waitress about the restaurant and the wautress showed me around. When I came back, she had paid and gone. I called then text (knowing she had gone) said are you stuck in the toilet. She said no I have left. I text have a good night. All the best. What did I do wrong? I am not putting her or pussy on a pedestral. Why should I pay for all the drinks? (btw this cute chick wasn't all that the second time I met her).

  2. Another girl I met about 2 months ago. Came to my place. No f-close. Didn't respond but called her out of the blue - she said I never thought yuo would. I spoke to her. Texted to agree to meet she didn't respond. I left it. Then sent her a random message saying lets meet this Sunday at 3pm. No response. Then yesterday I called her . No response. I texted saying something stupid like ' I saw you coming out of a karokee bar just noww... ' Then an hour later she said ' No wasn't me...' What should I do? Ghost her? I know I sounded needy by calling etc. How do I f-close this chick? I need to develop an abundant mentality and amused mastery.

Cheers