I'm 23 finished college in April 2017. I am very physically fit, people tell me all the time. I am very well dressed, people compliment me and ask where I get my stuff (I don't even wear anything amazing my clothes just fit so well cause I lift). I also rock a full beard which is very maintained. I am also confident I'm good looking because I get told I'm hot by girls.
I got a corporate office job right after college making 50k (not bragging like this is a lot cause it's not) so I'm doing better than most guys that graduated the same time as most are unemployed or working as personal trainers...
I am back living home with my parents (small town, high school dominated) until I've saved enough money to feel comfortable renting in a city or going back to live in my college town.
It's been tough, I'll make out with girls at the bar but they won't sleep with me (I was good at pulling to my place and have good plausible deniability), I'll match and message girls on tinder to meet up and they all flake last minute.
I thought it would be easier after college cause I'm an attractive guy that has my shit together. But it's been the opposite life after college has been incel af and I didn't realize how much sex was a drug till it's not there anymore and go through withdrawal and feel irritable, angry, sad, depressed, anxious all at the same time.
What do I do? Monk mode till I achieve higher SMV? If so how do I increase that if I'm already making money and have looks down pat? My social status could use a boost.
Should I move out? Is living at home really hindering me?
