Hello /r/Asktrp. I've been following TRP for about two years now and it has guided me on many aspects of my life. It’s also helped me get multiple plates and an LTR.

However, I've come across a strange situation that I haven’t experienced before. I met a 35 year old, 5/10, high value woman through my social circle. She's quite rich (high 7 figures), has a college degree and a postgraduate, owns a successful business, mentally sound, has a nice body, and treats me well.

I believe I am a decent value man (Varsity athlete, Med student, 7/10 in looks, own a car, 24 years old). In all my relationships the woman has always been of lower SMV which i use to my advantage in applying TRP principles (shit tests, abundance mentality, maintaining frame). I'm having difficulty doing those now. Dread game, abundance mentality, etc. are hard to do because I feel like she can leave me at any moment.

I don't want to let her go, since the relationship has been going really well so far. She's generous (pays for dates), does not shit test much, helps me out on a lot of stuff, great sex. I am hooked on her lifestyle, dinners at 5 star hotels, parties with famous people, planning on a euro cruise this Christmas. The only issue is that the power dynamic is very unusual. I feel like I'm not in control of the relationship as compared to my previous ones.

I know game can only help so much, and at the end of the day there are more variables to take into consideration. How do I become the leader whilst being the one of lower value? To be completely honest, I'm not sure what she sees in me, maybe she knows she's hitting the wall and wants to settle. I'm not planning on marrying her (or should I?) but I'd like to keep the relationship going and I prefer it to be on my terms.

The way I see it, maybe I should look outside the usual TRP point of view (sexual strategy), and consider what this relationship can do for me personally (maybe build some connections, find a mentor, establish a business). I’ve been out of my comfort zone for so long these past couple of months, and I’ve probably made a lot of mistakes(which may or may not have led to this predicament), but I think this experience will help me grow as a person regardless of how it turns out, so I have no regrets. Anyways, I would love some input and guidance from my fellow redpilled men as I’ve been alone in this journey long enough.