A bit of background. I hooked up with this girl for close to a year. She wanted a relationship, I told her I wasn't ready for one and let her go. 2 months later she calls me up and says she is pregnant. I have major doubts it is mine, I always wore a spermicidal condom and pulled out. I go with her and pay for half of the abortion cost just to be done with all this and move on and not have her stuck in my life. She was in fact pregnant but I have no way of doing a paternity test. This all really fucked me up in the head for awhile. We started talking again, mostly because I was mentally weak from all this shit she had put my through. We start hanging out again (we never had sex again). I tell her give me time I have been though a lot, lets take it slow and we can see about getting together in a few months depending on how things go. She said sure. Then she starts posting pics of her with another guy on social media. I ask her about it and she says it's just a friend, even though they are always hanging out. At this point I finally get smart and decide to cut her out of my life. I remove her from social media and whatnot.

We haven't talked in months. 2 weeks ago she randomly sends me a text that says "cool". I ignore. Then a few days later she sends me a snap. I don't open it. Then last night she texts me and says "I know it's not today but I just wanted to say Happy bday!" (she is a week and a half early) She is in my extended social circle and I may see her again at some point so I figured I would be nice about it and replied with Thanks, almost officially over the hill.

She then said "you're so old! I really miss you and I'm really sorry. I never meant to leave you." I didn't respond. Then this morning she sent me a text saying "Good morning I hope you have a great day!" and of course I didn't respond. I went back and looked at the snap she sent me a few weeks ago and it was her at a restaurant we had went to in the past.

What does she want and why is she trying to contact me again? I figured that her and the other guy had split and she wanted to branch swing back to me but I looked on her and his instagram and they still have recent pics of them together and they look "official" now

I'm curious about what game she is trying to play and what her goal here is. I plan on continuing hard nexting her and to ignore anything else that she sends me. She is bad for me and brings no value to my life.