This may sound like a weird issue, and honestly I'm not too sure how to resolve it, but my ability to get girls into my bedroom and into my bed is fine, I constantly meet new girls for coffee or drinks. Just in the last 3 weeks I've had 5 girls in my bed.

The problem is that every time I have the chance to 'make a move' and really start turning things from the 'gay best friend' to the 'chad' I freeze. I look at them, I overthink every little thing, and I freeze. I physically cannot force myself to do anything.

An example from the other week where this was really, really bad..

Texted a girl and arranged to watch the fireworks with her and a few of my friends, met her at the train, start chatting etc. all going well , cuddling under the fireworks. Then, same girl got on the train and came back to mine, knowing full well she wouldn't be able to get back to hers, she gets into my bed, puts on American Pie and I join her. Now at this point a girl has voluntarily put herself in my bed, and put herself in a situation where she knows she can't get home, so will have to sleep over. Obviously things are looking good.

What do I do? I cuddle. For the entire movie. And for the entire second movie. Everytime I wanted to do anything I just froze.

I really don't know how to get past this. I think the reasoning behind it is because I'm still being a little bitch about past experiences.

Any advice would be appreciated