So I'm a straight guy with a girlfriend. She recently got a vibrator and I was surprised at how jealous of it I was.

Without getting creepy, it is about as big as me but can vibrate with batteries. I thought that it would just be something that she used and it would never help our sex life. I felt like I wasn't good enough for her and she needed to reach out to plastic in order to get off better.

I'm sure a lot of other guys have had that experience too, where their partner will get a sex toy and you will almost feel like they are cheating.

Needless to say, it didn't ruin our sex life, it in a few ways enhanced it. None of which I will go into but it is just a toy, no different than fuzzy handcuffs. No need to be jealous. This was something that I, as a man, had to get used to.

When I was in my late teens (before I started dating my girlfriend) I bought a sex toy (fleshlight knockoff) and used it for a while since at the time I thought I was going to be a virgin forever. I never thought of abusing it or thought that it was anything but an extension of my hands or imagined it as a girl I was having fantasies about. Neither of these feelings are bad IMO and are just natural parts of being a young adult with urges.

this is where sex dolls come in. Keep in mind, I do not have a sex doll nor do I really want one but the issue isn't as simple as "wants to abuse a woman but there isn't a woman available."

I'll list off a few reasons a single man, or even one in a relationship would want a sex doll.

1.) companionship. I had a stuffed animal as a child, I loved it and played with it until I was about 10ish. Good times. If you had a doll you could do the same thing with it, basically having a make-believe relationship with it. If you have a partner who is gone all the time they can be a fill in for them too. Something you have in your bed that you can wrap your arms around like a body pillow.

2.) threesomes.... without the other person aspect. Hey, lots of guys and girls want a threesome. Not many want to actually get another person to be involved with their sex life. Solution? Sex doll.

3.) masturbation aid. If you just fuck it and throw it in a closet, is that really so bad? If the GF doesn't want anal... well the sex doll doesn't care too much.

I'm sure people can come up with other reasons too, but none of them I could think of were "a punching bag for abusive MENZ." If I wanted something that I could hit, I would buy a female BOB and a set of boxing gloves and beat on that. Not only would it be cheaper, but it could actually take the abuse.

Men, for the most part love women, especially the women they want to fuck.

IDK this whole thing has been weird to think about... why would someone hit their sex doll unless they are into severe BDSM? Why would someone hit their belonging with intent to break it?

If someone is abusing their masturbation/relationship aid then they have much bigger problems than "they might abuse women." They might be a straight up psycho. They might be heavily depressed and I would rather them have the judgement to hit a freaking hunk of plastic than another person.