Any advice when starting a LTR on establishing expectations on sex/trust/etc. Other guys, sex, etc. she is asking for exclusivity and I told her no fucking other guys, she said she won't, no sharing her body, etc. as we want to still not use condoms.

  1. The first time we had sex I cummed from behind and she just lay on the bed stunned for like a full minute, not out of breath but something seemed wrong (she didn't get dressed and run out of the room which was a good sign). She stayed for 2 hours talking afterwards... she later told me she hadn't had sex for 3 months and the guy lasted 2 minutes - I went 45 minutes. However the second night over she said no sex tonight, she would have sex tomorrow.... I didn't whine or beg and was like whatever. Inside I was like, oh great she will say this in the future and then we won't have sex the next day..... next day we had a ton of sex, but I want to figure a way not to have that excuse - we'll have sex later shit....

Recently I said I don't want to hear a no in the bedroom just as she can always expect me to never turn her down in the bedroom. But what if she does say no sex tonight again? How do I enforce that expectation? Dread? Some girl in the past told me I was sulking - presumably I did it wrong - angry/immediately after hearing the no...

  1. Trust - she asked to be able to see my phone at any moment. I told her she would get access if she moved in as I won't hide anything from her and she shouldn't from me. When we first hung out she was texting a male work friend and then complained to me he started getting sexual (asking for photos) so she stopped talking to him. She also became facebook friends with married guy we met on a date - dude lives in another state. She told me he has no chance whatsoever, he was just really funny - he was an entertaining drunk.... I think its good she told me, however do I tell her she can't have male friends or that she cannot "friend" guys on facebook?