I'm male 24 years old and I would like to share my recent "not so pleasant" experience in hopes I find better perspective, advice or confirmation on the matters.

In primary school I was a very shy guy with opposite gender, who despite having some relationship "requests" from girls around me, I didn't know how things work - so I always declined.

In high school I decided to take fate into my hands and built up my worth - to being able to have first sex/relationships - successfully.

As years went by I studied seduction a bit, worked on my character, fashion, and despite being kind of insecure in my self-love/self-respect, I've been able to fake it till I made it and somehow pulled of relationships with 3 pretty women in a row (across like 4 years)

Even after high school I had reasonable success in dating.

However, I observed a huge cultural / mental shift in women over the years. I suppose due to feminism? I mean It's on every podcast, every radio song, the values of independence and songs about "walk away from men".

I never liked red pill, I found it at points strange and contradicting. But as years go by - IF me as a male "on his peak" (so far) who had a lot of previous success with women, can't find a single one who's committed to speak for more than 5 minutes before ghosting you.. I guess I'm red pill too.

It's getting really bad and I don't know where to find the type of women "I used to date" when It was 7/8 years ago. There used to be this meme that men only want sex but nowadays it's women who will ghost you after dating and 2 nights of sex and claim they need independence (f*ck another guy).

I love women and I care about their well being too, but wtf has happened? I changed nothing besides climb in my career and become even more self/loving and respecting (confident), able to communicate, yet I went from dating pretty women all the time, to "0" across like entire year.

I found that modern women are trying to keep distance while keeping doors half open for like 30 of guys. It's all attention game, It's all fake, It's all bullshit and in the end she'll make it your fault. Online they never ask you questions, only one word responses, they never text first, they never show any care or interest in you or anything remotely meaningful (no matter how funny, serious or confident)

No matter what you strategy go with, they always look down on you, not as a consequence of higher competence (quite the opposite) but a personal insecurity combined with having 100s of options and going for the ONLY guy she won't ever pull off.

If you're female don't take this personally, it may not be you but it's my honest observation, and of many guys I know, women are being programmed by toxic culture to disrupt the harmonious union of sexes.

How can I find "normal" unspoiled women, in a country of almost no religion and 100% modernity?