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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Why do you even want to remain friends with such a person...just dump her and ghost her. You do not need manipulative people as friends let alone a GF. Just get out ASAP.
[–]Danvel7 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Eventually I will. But I am waiting to meet new people.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I really don’t get why you have to wait to get someone else before leaving. You don’t have to have new people in stock 24/7.
[–]shit-zen-giggles 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
don't. You need a cool off phase and some (temporal) distance in order for her to loose interest in you and move on to other targets.
Otherwise she'll just maniplulate your new relationships the same way she manipulated the previous ones.
Think about it.
[–]Danvel7 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you are right. Thanks for the advice
[–]sneaky_bedsquids 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why is she your friend. If you aren't interested in her , walk away. You sticking around to use her for companionship til you find someone else, is on you. she let you know what shes all about and told you to bounce if you aren't about that too. i agree that her disrespect of your boundaries is harassment, stop engaging with your harasser.
[–]Danvel7 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I needed to hear that. It really helps
[–]rachelkayhayhay 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She cut you off from potential relationships? I think you cut yourself off when you agreed to be intimate with her. Sounds like you have a lot of grief to get off your chest, but not taking responsibility for your choices isn’t helping anyone.
You are right. I have to start taking responsibility
[–]AMachoManRandySavage 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oooohhhhhhhh Yeeeeaaaahhhhhh! Sounds like your thinking with the wrong head! No means No..... Sounds like you were talking out the wrong hole little guy! This is men’s rights not men’s remorse! You have every right not to do what you did and nobody “made” you do it. She didn’t slip and fall on yo dick! Being taken advantage of is no joke and really sucks. Making bad decisions do as well. Sounds like you need to give her the proverbial flying elbow from the top ropes and quit crying over the milk you spilt. And always remember the cream floats to the top.. be the cream of the crop or lay down on the mat and wait for the elbow to......
I know... most of the comments have the same message. And I think that was what I was wanting to hear. But yours is quite aggressive. Either way, thanks.
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