Experienced psychological aggression Men:18.1 Women:13.9

Experienced any coercive control Men:15.2 Women:10:7

Had a partner tried to keep you from seeing family or friends Men:2.8 Women:2.3

Had a partner say to them things like “if I can’t have you than no one can” Men:1.8 Women:1.6

Had a partner destroy something important to you Men:1.7 Women:2.1

Experienced expressive aggression Men:9.3 Women:10.4

Told you, that you were a failure loser, not good enough: Men:3.5 Women:4.6

Your partner acted very angry in a way that seemed dangerous Men:3.1 Women:3.6

Your partner called you names like fat, ugly, stupid

Men:4.8 Women:6.5

Had a partner that Insulted, humiliated, made fun of them

Men:3.4 Women:4.7

Had a partner tell them no one else would want them Men:1.6 Women:2.6

Had a partner make decisions for them that should’ve been theirs to decide Men:5.8 Women:3.2

Had a partner keep track of them by demanding to know where they where and what they were doing Men:9.2 Women:6

Had a partner make threats of physical harm Men:1.6 Women:2.4

Had a partner threaten to commit suicide because he/she was upset Men:2.0 Women:2.2

Had a partner threaten to hurt or take a pet away:

Men:.4 Women:.5

Had a partner threaten to hurt someone they love Men:.5 Women:.8

Had a partner hurt someone they love Men:0.6 Women:0.7

Had a partner threaten to take away a child

Men:1.3 Women:1.3

Had a partner keep them from leaving when they wanted to go Men:2.0 Women:2.0

Had a partner keep you from having money to use Men:1.6 Women:1.2

(NISVS 2010 12 month numbers)

Now we shall look at the lifetime numbers

Experienced psychological aggression by a partner Men:48.8 Women:48.4

Experienced any expressive aggression Men:31.9 Women:40.3

Acted angry in a way that seemed dangerous Men:12.9 Women:23.3

Had a partner tell you that you were a loser a failure or not good enough Men:13.5 Women:19.7

Had a partner call you names like fat, ugly, stupid: Men:16.5 Women:25.9

Had a partner insult or make fun of you Men:12.6 Women:23.4

Had a partner tell them no one else would want them Men:7.3 Women:15.8

Experienced any coercive control

Men:26.8 Women:25.4

Had a partner make threats to physically harm:

Men:8.5 Women:18.7

Had a partner try to keep them from seeing family/friends Men:12.0 Women:17.9

Had a partner make decisions that should of been theirs to make Men:15.1 Women:16.9

Had a a partner threaten to hurt himself/herself or commit suicide because he/she was upset: Men:10.5 Women:15.2

Had a partner threaten to hurt or take a pet away: Men:1.8 Women:4.7

Had a partner threaten to hurt someone they love Men:1.7 Women:5.9

Had a partner threaten to take a child away from them: Men:5.5 Women:8.8

Had a partner keep them from leaving when they wanted to go Men:8.3 Women:14.8

Had a partner keep them from using their own money Men:5.5 Women:9.1

Had a partner destroy something important to them Men:12.2 Women:16.3

Had a partner say to them things like “if I can’t have you then no one can”

Lifetime

Male on female-58% Female on male-42%

12 Month Male on female:48% Female on male:52%

So the most important message I want you to remember from this is that “girls will be girls”

https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/cdc_nisvs_ipv_report_2013_v17_single_a.pdf