So recently I got out of a 4 year relationship. She broke up with me because I no longer gave her the feelz and probably because I spent way too much time with my sport/ hobbies which didn't include her. Anyways she broke up with me and I moved on without any problem.

Now that I'm single, I'm really struggling with priorities... I by no means want a relationship. My last relationship ended because I lived like I was single the entire time (referring to my hobbies, not cheating).

I met a girl and F closed on the first date and it's leaving me question a lot. Sex is good and all but I don't need it like others do. I feel like I have way more to lose having sex than I do to gain. I'm gaining 15-60 mins of pleasure and risking my freedom for the next 18 years. I can't get over the fear of getting a girl pregnant. It doesn't bother me much when I'm in a LTR because obviously I see a future with them and that's why I'm dating them but I'm done with LTRs for a while. Also, I'm 6'1", 170, 25, 6 figure job in STEM and compete in an endurance sport on a national level. Girls have a lot to fucking gain by getting pregnant by me.

It's all just fucking with me and makes me feel like giving up sex will result in the happiest life for me. Just the stress of getting a broad pregnant wears me down. How do y'all cope with this?