Been going out with this girl for 9 months and things are good but there's a few things.

  1. She made me wait but she had 2 ONS before me, she did have sex with me after the 2nd date but our first date was 1 month after we started texting, but she told me she was planning on waiting 2 months because she wanted to make sure I wasn't gonna leave after I got what i wanted and it angers me. And she would refuse sex with me sometimes in the beginning because she said she didn't want to burn things out too fast. But before we had hung out it had been like 4 weeks and she told me stories about her one night stands and her escapades in a bragging way.

  2. When guys from the past she wouldn't reject them immediately she would like lead them on and say something like well its not a good idea I have a bf(I would have liked for her to say something like why would I have sex with you my boyfriends better but eh oh well)

  3. She hung out with a guy that she met on tinder 1 week after she asked me to go out with her that had recently got a gf but she didn't cheat i know for sure and she lied about it and didn't tell me until 5 months in and we broke up but ended up getting back together after I did some stuff on our break and she complained about the stuff I did on our break.

  4. She didn't initiate sex until 9 months into our relationship because I got mad at her for not doing it, she claims that it was because I always did it first and we had sex so often and then that after the whole number 3 incident it really damaged her and part of her didn't want to make me happy.

  5. She tried to break up with me a few times after arguments and I had a bit of a problem with getting over the past and she didn't like me being mad at her and I was like lets talk it out and we ended up getting back together.

  6. She had a bit of a problem in the beginning of the relationship with attention seeking on social media and she stopped doing it but i feel like the urge is still there.

But she has changed colleges(community colleges) to be with me, I got in a big argument with her best friend who was a manipulative evil girl and she said to break up with me or we cant be friends and obviously we are still together, she moved out of her moms house and moved in with me because her mom wasn't letting her go out and stuff and she said she was down to elope with me.

But recently I have been thinking that I don't want a girl that wont make me happy because I did something to her I want the girl that will be like well if hes doing this I need to make him more happy, and I told her I should be the one that you do things with me that you haven't with others and i'm not the guy that's gonna come save you after you have been passed around when you wont let me have it all and I don't need a girl that's gonna be like fine lets break up I need one that's gonna be like what can I do so that we don't break up? But long story short I broke up with her for good and I feel like I'm doing the right thing but I can't help but think maybe I'll become more mature and be like damn I shouldn't have let her go.