Crosspost "Wife having an affair with a co worker, anyone come back from this?" from /r/Marriage:

Both 45, married 20 years and have two kids 18,20 who are away at school. 20 days ago I found out about the affair through incriminating texts on her phone. Told me she would end it and it's only emotional and she's sorry.

13 days ago she didn't come home, she stayed the night at her coworkers house. Once Monday rolls around she runs back to him and stays with him till Friday, told me she didn't think she loved me anymore.

Have been absolutely devastated, we have a mutual friend female who has been a great friend to me and forced me in a caring way to file for divorce. Due to the lack of remorse and her spending her nights in another mans bed I served my wife and now she has said she wants to make it work and wants our marriage. We make about the same amount of money, she's also accused me of having an affair with said friend.

The kids leaving was supposed to be our time together, we were supposed to go on vacations and really enjoy our lives together. Instead she now is a huge yoga person and has gotten breast implants. She wants us to go into counseling.

Posted by unsuspectingdad89 | 8 March 2017 | Link