When I get laid, its out of pure luck:

  • random girl hits me up to meet.

  • i ask girl if she want to be FWB after 20 min of talking

  • 2 tinders out of 1000s of swipes

  • got girls #, hung out, and banged (understand this one)

I only understand the last one cus i played a song on stage and she thought i was hot after that.

The rest i have absolutely no clue as to why these chicks fucked me.

And mind you i have been rejected way more than the girls i layed. In person, 50 approaches for 1 lay.

So what can i do to take my sex life into my own hands?

  • lift

  • talk to girls

  • eat right

  • have hobbies / purpose / mission / life goal

  • get rich / famous / swole

And thats it? Thats all a guy has to do? Seems to easy, there has to be more.

Side question: is this how it is supposed to look when youre laying a girl?

  • approach her in public setting, talk about random shit, laugh, light touch, gauge interest, get number. "You seem like we'd click, whats ur #?"

  • arrange 1 on 1 hang out

  • go out, hsve fun, talk, escalate lay?