People in TRP sub always say 'just be an asshole', 'just be arrogant' and all that stuff. But how much of it is actually OK?

Some say that just having self respect is OK, others say that being an absolute dick is OK, and both say 'yeah m8, I'm fucking like ten biches every day with that shit'.

I'm not a 'niceguy', I'm not friends with girls that I want to fuck with, I'm in the slow process of not tolerating female bullshit anymore, and I have to say that sometimes I get a little bit off hand with my teases. But I'm still a kind person, that's just the way I grew up.

So how am I supposed to be an absolute dick? Should I downright disrespect her? Should I ignore everything she says? Should I treat her like shit? Should I slap her ass even if she doesn't want to? (I mean, uiwon't ask for her permission, but I would do it in the right moment), What if she gets mad? Like, 'real shit' mad ? Is that a shit test? What if she gets hurt beyond her feminine ego? Is that a shit test too?

I mean, I don't put pussy on a pedestal, but this is just a whole next level. I have lost many opportunities by just being a little bit of a bad boy, so isn't it logical that being the extreme of a bad boy will make all girls hate me to the point of no contact?