New to TRP here, mid 20's, but have been playing it cool with this girl, also mid 20's, I started seeing in mid November. We hung out once with her friends at her place it was a good time nothing happened, she immediately invites me over again the next night and we have sex.

A day or 2 after that I leave for a Christmas vacation, she's constantly texting me, snapping me and bummed when one day she hasn't texted or snapped me first I don't contact her at all. So we continue constantly snapping texting for the remainder of the time I'm gone.

I get back home she's been ready to see me since I left. I wait a day or so and initiate a hangout, we drink hang with her friends have badass sex. We do it again the night after next. Then on this third day we hang, no sex because she's sore, said I'd wake her up with oral and she was very into that. She mentioned this the night before during sex,(I'm larger than most). Instead she says she has a question and asks me if this is just fun for me. I play dumb and eventually she gets around to telling me she likes me compliments my qualities and I am ideally what she's looking for. So I say I kinda like her too. And she asks if I'm seeing anyone else I told her the truth and said no not at this time and she goes on a rant how that really surprises her and it's her big thing that she doesn't like guys who lie and stuff. She proceeds to tell me about her last relationship and how she ended due to his drug use. It was 5 year relationship and she's been out of it since may.

Anyway we small talk, cuddle, and we fall asleep. Wake up the next day she gets called into work and I head back to my place and hang with my friends. Now she isn't texting me as frequently or hardly at all. Just little tid-bits and nothing of any importance. I play it cool respond every once in a while with plenty of time between mine. She goes to her friends SO with them and they find out he's been seeing another girl and he tells me this but continues with the being a little shady.

So here I am. I'm not sure what to do. I think it's because of the talking we did the other night. Tell me where I went wrong and what I should do for future reference. She's pretty cool, HB8, I enjoy her company and our conversations when we have them also enjoy her friends and they like me pretty well but if it's a lost cause at this point I understand.